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Does telling kids they're smart help them succeed?
✗ Not supported 37 sources reviewed, 19 peer-reviewed
Research consistently shows that telling children they're smart is associated with worse motivation and performance compared to praising effort. Studies found intelligence-praised children chose easier tasks 67% of the time versus 8% for effort-praised children, and their performance dropped 20% after failure.
What would prove this wrong?
A longitudinal study tracking students receiving consistent intelligence praise from trusted teachers showing maintained or improved challenge-seeking behavior and performance resilience compared to effort-praised peers would disprove the current findings
Open questions
Most research focuses on fifth-graders in controlled settings rather than diverse age groups in natural classrooms
Cultural variations in how intelligence praise is interpreted have not been thoroughly examined
What the evidence says
Has Issues
#1
Research by Carol Dweck demonstrates that praising intelligence leads children to avoid challenges and give up more easily when facing difficulties, as they fear failure will reveal they're not actually smart.
In Dweck's study, students praised for intelligence chose easier tasks compared to only 8% of the intelligence-condition group
Has Issues
#2
Intelligence praise creates a fixed mindset where children believe their abilities are unchangeable, causing them to focus on appearing smart rather than learning and improving their skills.
Teacher expressing frustration with ADHD student behavior using phrase 'You're So Smart Now Act Like It'
Has Issues
#3
Studies show that children who receive intelligence-based praise perform worse on subsequent tasks compared to those praised for effort, as they become risk-averse and less willing to tackle problems that might make them look unintelligent.
Contains discussion of praising children with phrases like 'You worked really hard' versus 'You're so smart' in early childhood context
Key sources (28 total)
After failure, children praised for intelligence displayed less task persistence, less task enjoyment, more low-ability attributions, and worse task performance than children praised for effort
Children praised for intelligence resist new challenges and choose the easiest path to avoid looking dumb, while kids who understand that effort and hard work matter show different behavior
Children in task demonstrate challenges with differential treatment based on racial stereotypes including 'you're so smart for a Black person' comments
Does telling kids they're smart actually hurt their performance?
Research shows children praised for intelligence performed 20% worse after experiencing failure compared to those praised for effort. In laboratory studies, intelligence-praised children also chose easier tasks 67% of the time versus only 8% for effort-praised children.
What should I praise instead of calling my child smart?
Studies found that praising effort rather than intelligence led to better outcomes, with effort-praised children choosing challenging tasks 92% of the time. However, the research comes primarily from controlled laboratory settings with fifth-graders, so real-world applications with trusted caregivers may differ.
Why does praising intelligence backfire with kids?
Research suggests that when children are told they're smart, they may avoid challenges to protect that label and see failure as evidence they're not actually intelligent. Studies show this leads to choosing easier tasks and worse performance after setbacks compared to children praised for their effort.
Would these results be the same with younger or older kids?
The key studies were conducted primarily with fifth-graders in laboratory settings, so we don't know if the same patterns would occur with different age groups. The controlled nature of these experiments also means we're uncertain how praise from trusted teachers or parents in real classroom and home environments might produce different results.
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